I wondering..

Am I the only person who seem to have people in their lives who think that their life is their business and my life is their business? And I not talking about yuh mother who concerned about what you doing in your life for your betterment of it. I talking bout friends (who it seems having ulterior motives) trying to dictate how your life should be run.

I never am concerned about what others doing. That's their life. If they happy doing it, not hurting anyone then go for it. My friends are free to see who they want, go where they want without me making noise about it. Once they not hurting themselves or nobody in the process. But tell me why it is a problem for them for me to see who I want or go where I want?

Why is it that whatever my friends have to do is very important. So important that they can delay me, make me wait, cancel on me but if there is something that I deem important for me to do, it's a problem. Apparently they are more important.

Everybody seems to know who and what is good for me. All of a sudden I have 4 fathers who seem to think they need to dictate my life, when they should be concentrating a little bit more on theirs. I guess that's what I get for being an open person, leaving room for people to step in and give their opinion. Because some of these same people who like to "share" with me hide their business like it's a national secret. I probably need to do the same.

But why the people stressing me out are Males???